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How do I stay firm with my decision??

After so many break ups, I am wondering if I’ll be strong enough to hold firm with my decision. Any advice is welcome before I forget what led me to break up and I go back for another disappointing round. I would love a roadmap and a timeline❤️.

I feel stuck financially 😔

I feel stuck financially because my toxic person makes double what I make and thinks I'm here for a free ride. I have a good job with good pay. Benefits, which they are on, and job security. I pay all the bills, I help with the groceries. I pay daycare, the kids clothes, extracurriculars, and equipment. I can't save anything. I can't qualify for a mortgage on my own. This is one of my main reasons for staying and sticking around when I know it's unhealthy. What tips do you have to become unstuck to move in any direction?'